ANALYZE YOUR CRUSH, QUICK!
You want to know more about your crush... but you don't want to drive him crazy with questions? Myjellybean.com has sneaky tips for how to analyze his dating potential, from just a few clues.
CLUE #1: HIS FRIENDSHIP HISTORY
How long your crush has been hanging with his posse can tell you a lot about his worthiness as a boyfriend. A guy who has been friends with the same dudes since he was a little kid, can claim loyalty as one of good traits. Just make sure you like his buds, though - because he won't give them up for you. What if your sweetie has all-new friends? Give him a break if he recently moved schools, or neighborhoods - or moved away from a bad crowd. But otherwise, consider whether he has trouble keeping friends, which could signify a problem with commitment or trustworthiness.
CLUE #2: HIS COMMUNICATION STYLE
Does he email or IM, instead of phoning, even if you asked him to call? He might just be a techno junkie - or he may be trying to put on a front. Communicating in writing lets your crush edit what he says, and hide certain parts of his true self. Of course, if he's IMing every 5 minutes, he might just crave your 24/7 attention, which isn't a bad thing! If he's a phone kind of guy, he probably has no issues with getting close - a sign that he's mature enough for a real relationship.
CLUE #3: HIS FAVORITE SPORT
Is your crush into a sport that's done solo, like running or rock climbing? He might crave spending a lot of time alone... which can be hard for a girl who craves a lot of closeness and couple time. On the other hand, guys who are fans of mainstream team sports (such as football, basketball and baseball), tend to be competitive and into group activities, so bond with his friends if you want to capture his heart. As for the guy who's just not into sports at all, he may be a sensitive soul with a real independent streak. Appeal to him by showing him the unique qualities that make you stand out from the crowd.
CLUE #4: THE OUTFITS HE ADMIRES
Which clothes that you wear seem to get the most attention from your crush? If he's more impressed by a cute tee-shirt and jeans or a simple sundress, rather than tight-fitting or fancy outfits, your crush is likely a laid-back guy who likes low-maintenance girls. A guy who is wowed when you wear high-end designer duds is preoccupied with status and prestige, and may dump you if someone more popular looks his way. And a guy who likes girls who wear sexy outfits? He could be insecure and looking for an ego boost.
CLUE #5: HOW HE CUTS LOOSE
He might be adorable, but if he can't cut loose with his friends, he's probably self-conscious. This type of guy needs to be lured out of his shell, so take things slowly and don't overwhelm him with flirty maneuvers or romantic gestures. On the flip side, if he's a die-hard partier, he may be tons of fun to hang out with - but his constant craving for attention means he requires a lot of TLC, and your needs might be neglected. You'll also have trouble getting one-on-one time, since he'd rather be surrounded by peeps than be alone with you.
CLUE #6: HIS DRIVING STYLE
Getting a car with a cutie can give you some important hints about his personality. Does he constantly weave in and out of traffic, tailgate slowpokes and/or make rude gestures to other drivers? Beware - this dude has a problem with aggression. While a forceful personality may be great for the soccer field, it could be difficult to deal with this argumentative guy in a relationship. If he's able to remain calm and collected when stuck in a traffic jam, he's likely to have more self-control - and be more patient with you, too.
CLUE #7: WHAT HE WATCHES ON TV
Does your guy park himself in front of one sitcom after another? He probably uses humor to de-stress, which is pretty smart. He probably gets over disagreements without losing his temper, or holding a grudge. But it also might be hard to get into a serious conversation with him, which can be frustrating if you like to talk. A guy who's more into detective and mystery shows is a thoughtful type. He prides himself on his problem-solving abilities, so he'll be there for you when you need support.
CLUE #8: HIS BIRTH ORDER
Amazingly, your guy's place in the family order can tell you quite a bit about him. An oldest child is usually more responsible than others, because he's had to help take care of siblings. Middle children are sensitive and crave lots of attention and cuddling. And the baby of a family tends to be creative, and also rebellious.