DO YOU LOSE YOURSELF IN RELATIONSHIPS?

When you're part of a couple, do you lose too much of yourself? Compromising with a boyfriend is fine, but a truly relationship means also being true to yourself and the things that mattered to you before you hooked up with him. Take this Myjellybean.com quiz to discover if you know how to protect the "me" in "we".

1. If I don’t have a boyfriend:

I'm usually looking for one.

I'm nobody.

I'm totally happy being single.

2. Be honest: If your BF seems moody, do you immediately think it's your fault?

No, of course not.

Yes, I do.

Depends on how I've been acting lately.

3. Have you ever tried to get back together with an ex-boyfriend, even though you weren’t that happy in the relationship?

Yes.

I've thought about it.

No.

4. The thing that annoys you about your boyfriend is:

He makes me do things I don’t really want to do.

He doesn't call as often as I'd like him to.

He likes some pretty stupid movies.

5. I only really feel great about myself when:

I achieve the goals that I set for myself.

My friends and boyfriend are getting along.

My boyfriend is happy with me.

6. What would you do if your boyfriend hated your friends?

I'd try to figure out ways to make them get along.

I'd probably drift away from them, to be honest.

Dump him. Boys come and go, but true friends are forever.

7. Have you ever given up hobbies or interests because your boyfriend wasn’t into them or looked down on them?

No way.

Not totally, but I've downplayed them.

I'm not sure, maybe.

8. You and your guy are hanging with his friends, and he starts talking trash about your family. Thing is, you're quite tight with your folks. Do you stand up for your opinion?

I might keep quiet in front of his friends, but confront him about it later.

No, he's entitled to have his own opinions about your family.

I would put a stop to that right away. Nobody disrespects my family!

9. When my boyfriend gets mad at me:

I feel indignant.

I feel upset.

I feel like I'm stupid.

10. What might stop you from accepting an offer to study abroad, in the city of your dreams?

If my boyfriend didn't want me to go.

Nothing, I'm so there!

If my friends didn't want me to go.

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