You maintain a healthy sense of self in a love relationship. You value togetherness, but you also value your own opinions and interests as a person. You’re not about to give that up for anyone. That’s good, because it makes you a much more interesting girl to know! Nice going.
You have a tendency to act a bit like a different person when you’re in a love relationship. You don’t change completely, but you do start worrying a lot about what he thinks and letting that alter your actions. Don’t be so afraid to be yourself with a guy. Boys get really bored of being agreed with all the time, they don’t want to date themselves! They want a girl with a cool personality, which means having your own opinions and standing up for them.
You have a real problem of losing touch with yourself when you get into a relationship. You stop doing things the way you usually do, and you repress your own feelings just so they match your boyfriend’s. You’re putting yourself in a bad position, because if you ever break up (yes it is possible), you may not have many friends left because you’ve drifted away from them. And you won’t even know who you are or what you like anymore. Take action now. Start reminding yourself what it is that makes you "you." Ask your friends what they like best about you. Then emphasize those things from now on, and speak up when you disagree with your bf. If he doesn’t like it, get rid of him and find someone who’ll love you for yourself.
Your score is quite alarming. You are putting yourself in position to be pushed around by a boyfriend who takes advantage of your weaknesses. You may think everything is fine. But you have probably lost friends when you got into relationships, since you drift away and become all about your bf, and that is a sign that things are wrong. Another is that you think of what your boyfriend would say before you make even the smallest decisions, like what to wear to school. You wouldn’t let your mother boss you around so much, so why do you take it from someone your own age? Boys are just people, and no person is worth giving up yourself for. It took a long time to figure out who you are and what you like. Don’t forget it! Really concentrate on building your self-confidence and getting strong about standing your ground. That may mean doing some work to remember what your opinions are in the first place. You can do it. It’s work, but it’s worth it to rediscover the real you. It will feel great.