Your greatest need is to be able to talk and express yourself. If your date is not a good listener, or is judgmental of your opinions or experiences, you will get turned off very quickly.
You may develop a crush on someone because of their looks, but if they turn out to be boring or unintelligent, your interest in them disappears. You'd much rather read a good book than spend an evening on a dull date with someone who has nothing to say.
The person who becomes your love partner has to also be your best friend, someone who you can have long conversations with and tell your secret wishes and dreams. You even love a good argument when it's in the spirit of a debate. However, you hate real fighting and you often get out of control in arguments, because they bring out your emotional side and feelings you keep hidden.
You flirt a lot, because you enjoy the challenge of seeing if you can make someone like you. In fact, half the time you lose interest as soon as you "catch" somebody! However, once you give your heart to someone, it is theirs to keep. You are 100 percent true to the one you adore, and you will defend them and support them to the ends of the earth.