SHE LIKES HER BFF'S GUY

Dear Jellybean,

I really need help in this department because I have never felt like this before. I really like my best friend but the thing is I think he might like me too. But he has a girlfriend that happens to be my best friend too. We talk almost everyday on the phone but when we see each other in school he never talks to me. Its like he fells safer behind the phone. What should I do and how do I know if he likes me too?

Dear Writer,

Oh, come on. You know what I'm going to say, don't you? If you're your BFF's real best friend, you'll stay the heck away from her guy. End of story. Stop talking to him on the phone, don't IM him, and go find your own guy to crush on. He belongs to her - and even by what you've done already, you are betraying her trust and the friendship you've built. If you continue this behavior, you're going to ruin two relationships - hers with her boyfriend, and hers with you. Are you really willing to do that, and possibly end up with a bad rep at your school too, over a guy you might only end up dating for a month or two?