Dear Jellybean,
So i like this guy... a lot... and im pretty sure he likes me. But anyway i guess u can consider us "talking" (not really together yet). So basically everything that happends between us i tell my best friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years now. So since my best friend knows that i like this guy she has been telling his basically everything i say about him. Not in a way that lets him know that i said it myslef but in a way that makes it seem like shes thinking these things. At first i didnt really care what she would say but know its just relly getting on my nerves.I some what confronted her about it and she said she would stop but im scared that she still might do it again. Its not that i dont want her to talk to him anymore, but its just stuff that i really dont want him to know(like how i feel really him... things i'd rather tell him myself). Should i just stop telling her the way i feel about him(which is hard since shes my bestfriend)?
-Absolutely Confused
Dear Absolutely Confused,
You told your friend to stop blabbing to your crush, which was the right thing to do. Now you'll have to trust that she listened, and that she won't spill your secret thoughts to him anymore. If she is truly your best friend, you have to keep confiding in her, because that's what BFFs are for. If you're nervous about something getting back to him, you can always preface whatever you're saying with, "You know this info is top-secret and never to be repeated to anyone, right?"
